speechless HELP!! asap

[goose21]

man im doin horrible in that department
u see there is this girl in school and i really just met her this year. but i really like her and all. the only problem is that when i am around her i cant think of anything to say. i sit next to her at all the basketball games and everything but i am speechless
my mind goes completely blank. i have no openers at all.
we just recently had a dance and i asked her to it. she said that she just wanted to go with friends but she would definitely dance with me. so at the dance we slow danced about 3 times and we both had a really good time. but im still speechless around her. anybody have any ideas about what to say.


P.S. i know this doesnt pertain to hunting but even while there is a thousand snows and blues hovering above us in the field i cant stop thinking about her and what i should say.



thanks

[Shaun_300]

this is normal buddy, one of the joys of teenhood is getting to know girls and for some people it takes a lot of courage to start talking to someone that you really like! TRUST ME!! the best thing to do, is to just start treating them as friends to start. just treat her that she was one of your buddies. go up to her in the morning, and say "good morning _______ (<--- her name)" this way, you get to know each other more before you try to ask her out. i did that too many times in high school. just go up to a girl that i had my eyes on for 2 days and ask her out most of the time it was a "lets get to know each other more" or a "lets just be friends first". so more than likely, she will want to get to know you better. just do little things at first, like offer to walk with her to class. then just keep going a bit farther, offer to buy her lunch someday. and bud, don't think that you are not normal for thinkin that you can't get her out of your head. i was just like you still am sometimes so just try that out, let me know how it goes!! you can do it man.

[Grant-KS]

I hear you loud and clear. I really, really like a girl, and try to hang out with her, but whenever we're together, I hardly say a word. It's kinda uncomfortable because you're just sitting there, and there's total silence. LOL And what's more, you don't get to know each other any better. And, it's weird like at school. I can say Hi, hello, and joke with all the other girls at school, but I hardly ever talk to, or joke with Shirley. Weird.
Good luck man! If I could think about hitting the X on my target as much as I think about a certain girl, I'd be the world champion archer! LOL

[robk]

try this speechless don't come upwith a line they her that crap all the time. if you like her try giving her flowers or candy or something like that valentines day is coming up and ask to be your valentine with those gifts orask her out to dinner at a real resturant. if she refuses then you know to go another direction but if you do it right and take her to a nice resturant and show her yor ernest interest she will more then catch on.
also send her a nice card to her home just to say you were thinking o f her. that too can also work wonders. good luck but i have foudn in my day that line thing is old be yourself and ask her outright if she would like to go on a date to the resturant. or even a movie no lines except tell her the truth say i like and you make me speechless but i do like you and would love to take you out. that's not a line it's the truth she has two ways of handling it a yes or no and if you don't take thqat step then some guy with a pair will take her away form you before it happens
rob k

[Washi]

When you are sitting near her and can't think of anything to say, just ask her, "Why can't I ever think of anything to say when I'm around you?" I don't know why but it seems to work for me. When you bring the problem out in the open it usually goes away.

[goose21]

thanks yall
guess i gotta start taking chances. i cant be afraid or im never going to get anywhere. well i guess ill be back tomorrow if anything happens. again thanks for the advice

[chicks_hunt_to]

u men are just stupid all we want is guys to ask us out and get it over with she prob. knows about u TALK TO HER

[spyderpancake]

Walk up to her and talk about something, anything! the more you talk the more you will find out about her and the easier it will be to find something to talk about!

[goose21]

thanks for all the advice guys but i just found out friday night that she likes one of my friends
at least when she didnt really like anybody i had a chance but is there any hope for me now
or should i just give up

[lilbuckmaster]

I think you just need to talk to her alone and tell her how you feal because if you don't you might not get a chance to go out with her.

[carbonhunter]

Try laughing at your self, whenever I used to get uptight around a women, id crack on myself..worked like a charm, a girl loves a guy that can laugh at himself.

Just start a conversation though anything will work..the more you talk the more there is to talk about.

[JimT]

Do you know what she likes to do? Thats a good start. Talking to girls is easy. You can start off with anything, and run with it. Good luck with her...

[dodge4x4]

you gotta talk to her man, let her know ya like her.....good luck!