Need a little help with something...

**Randy** · 11-10-2009, 08:00 PM

Here's the situation. As many of you know I am in the middle of a divorce. To make a long story short I want 50/50 custody of my kids. For some reason my soon to be ex thinks she is more deserving of the kids time and doesn't want to agree to it. Anyways, her attorney is trying to say she is basically "going out of her way for me" and he states, "At Trial, she will have no choice but to fully assert her legal rights in all areas." He goes on to say, "Thank you for your time and attention to this matter and hopefully Randy will understand the considerble exposure he will face at trial."

So here's my question, is that some kind of threat? Scare tactic? What?

**wtnhunt** · 11-11-2009, 05:07 AM

Don't know how much Chris(Hoosierbuck) knows on divorce law Randy, but you may want to pm him.

That does kind of sound like it may be some sort of scare tactic to me though.

**PotashRLS** · 11-11-2009, 08:11 AM

Originally Posted by wtnhunt

Don't know how much Chris(Hoosierbuck) knows on divorce law Randy, but you may want to pm him.

That does kind of sound like it may be some sort of scare tactic to me though.

I agree with William. Pretty sensitive stuff and it needs to be dealt with with a lot of forethought. It is a shame it has come to this. Prayers for ya buddy.

**hungry hunter** · 11-12-2009, 12:07 AM

Randy, best of luck to ya brother. Its a scare tatic that attorneys use against each other. I went through the same thing in 2004. Except for my kids were grown and gone. But the ex was going after all of my retirements both Law enforcement and Military. She only got one. anyhow if I can help ya out any hit me with PM. Fred

**stevebeilgard** · 11-12-2009, 11:30 PM

you have an attorney, don't you randy? if not, you better get one. i think it's just a scare tactic. i wouldn't bite, just do what you have to do. now, if there are some dark skeltons that may come out of the close then maybe talk settlement, but not before.

**hunterbobb** · 11-13-2009, 06:21 PM

You don't really want me to post the answer here on the open forum do you.

**MichiganHunter** · 11-13-2009, 06:40 PM

I will tell you it sounds like a scare tactic to me....The fact is that unless the kids are nursing, the father has just as much right to time spent with his kids as the mother....If you havent already try to find a lawyer how specializes in men's rights durring divorce.

YOU HAVE RIGHTS TO YOUR KIDS....Best of luck my friend